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    How to Cultivate Leadership Presence in a Remote Working World

    Last updated on Jan 28, 2021 by Dan McCarthy · This post may contain affiliate links

    Guest post from Sarah Rozenthuler:

    In our rapidly
    changing world, new pressures are emerging. To navigate more demanding customer
    expectations
    , an acute distrust of business and so much remote working, leaders need
    to find new ways of operating. Cultivating leadership presence is foundational
    for this to happen.

    With deeper
    presence, a leader is able to remain centred when facing unexpected
    disruptions, be open to new directions and build trusting relationships. People
    follow people. Leaders who are grounded in who they are, what they stand for
    and what really matters take others with them.

    What
    leadership presence is

    When was a time
    that you became so immersed in what you were doing that you lost a sense of
    time? You might have been reading a novel, talking with a colleague or writing
    a report; any activity that requires focused concentration can take us there.
    Already you’ve had a taste of this capacity.

    When we operate
    from a sense of our presence, we are in a state of absorbed relaxation. There
    is a feeling of spaciousness or ‘flow’ inside us. Afterwards, when we look
    back, we realise that we’d been totally ‘there’ and in touch with our best
    self.

    When we are present, we are right here, right
    now. All our attention is focused in this moment. If we’re in a meeting, we’re
    attentive; we’re not thinking about our emails, ‘to do’ list or other
    distractions. We stay in contact with what’s happening in the room, as well as
    what’s going on inside us. We don’t try to control or manipulate others but
    allow them space to be themselves, just as we are being ourselves. Other people
    are attracted by this expansive energy and want to draw closer.

    Why
    developing presence matters

    There are several benefits to cultivating presence and building trusting
    relationships is chief among them.

    Marc Benioff, CEO of Salesforce, attributes the sustained success of the
    company to its operating principle of ‘values create value’. In an interview
    for
    Fortune, Benioff states: ‘If trust isn’t your highest value, the employees will walk out… Customers
    will walk out, investors will walk out and leaders will walk out, and you’re
    seeing more of that everyday.’[1]

    Deepening presence reduces the risk of ‘acting out.’ When a leader yells at others or humiliates
    them
    , it damages relationships. Retrenchment after the event can lead to feelings of
    shame or, at the other extreme, stubbornness that “I was right!” Wasted energy
    and lost potential are the result.

    Dealing with reactivity is key. Whilst lashing out at others provides a short-term release of pent-up energy, it
    pollutes the atmosphere. No one wants to work for a leader who ‘throws their
    toys out of the pram’ or withdraws into a sulky silence
    . When a button inside of us gets pushed, it’s an opportunity to pause,
    reflect and search inside ourselves so that the button loses its charge
    .

    How
    to become more present

    With the intensity of
    working online, it is particularly important to find ways of consciously
    managing your attention.
    Here are some things to try (whether on Zoom or in person) so that you stay
    energised as well as engage your co-workers.

    1.   
    Before a meeting

    Take a few moments to become present. Find a
    quiet space where you can close your eyes, scan your body and notice what
    you’re feeling. Pay particular attention to any signs of stress that you sense.
    Breathe into this part of your body to help to release any tension.

    Put away your phone (unless you need it to be
    logged onto a meeting or for a call.) Keep it out of sight so that you’re less
    likely to swivel your attention in its direction. The people you’re with will
    feel more valued if they’re not competing for your attention.

    2.   
    During a meeting

    Stay in touch with your own body as you interact
    with others. Feel your feet on the ground, your backside in the chair and your
    spine sitting upright.

    Notice yourself breathing in and out. If you’re
    able to, lightly place your hand on your stomach to help you to stay connected
    with this “belly breath.” When you notice that you’ve “jumped” out of yourself
    or lost touch with you sense of self, focus again on your breathing.

    Maintain eye contact when another person is
    speaking. On screen, move your eye gaze between looking directly at the camera
    (so that the other person feels you’re looking directly at them) and looking at
    their image on the screen. This conscious ‘shuttling’ helps to keep your mind
    from wandering. It communicates to the other that they have your full
    attention.

    If you’re not able to give other people your
    full attention, say so. It is better to say, “I know you need to talk with me
    and I’m interested, but I want to give you my undivided attention” than to be
    in a semi-distracted state. Take care of what you need to and then return to
    the conversation.

    3.   
    After a meeting

    Carve out whatever space you can between
    meetings rather than rushing from one to the next. Even a short break of a few
    minutes helps to clear your mind and reduce “attention residue” (continuing to
    think about one issue when you need to pivot to the next.)

    If it’s possible to stand outside or open a window,
    even for a few seconds, the fresh air will help to keep your attention focused
    in the here-and-now.

    At the end of a meeting, jot down any actions or
    decisions that were taken so that these don’t remain as ‘open loops’ in your
    mind, which have been shown to consume a disproportionate amount of energy.
    Close your ‘loops’ from one meeting before you head to or log into the next.

    In closing

    When we are present, we see opportunities and identify risks that we miss when we’re only half
    there.
    In a
    state of
    presence, we are open to fresh
    insights and ‘action impulses’ that take us forward.
     

    Our presence – so simple, so basic and yet so
    rare – is what creates the most impact when someone walks into the room,
    whether in person or on Zoom. Great leaders have it and you can too. Presence
    is available to us each moment. Cultivating presence will greatly enhance the
    quality of your leadership and life.

    Sarah Rozenthuler is a chartered psychologist, leadership consultant
    and pioneer of purpose-led leadership. She has over 15 years international
    experience consulting to many different organizations including BP, Spencer
    Stuart, Standard Chartered Bank, IUCN and the World Bank as well as numerous
    SMEs and not-for-profit organisations, including Choice Support and Booktrust. 

    As the author of How to Have Meaningful Conversations: Seven
    Strategies for Talking About What Matters Most (Watkins, 2012)
    , Sarah’s
    work has been widely featured in the media including the Huffington Post, the
    Sunday Times, the FT, Guardian, Psychologies Magazine and the BBC Business online. 

    Sarah works with CEOs and leaders who want to create positive change by
    having the conversations that matter most. Increasingly these conversations are
    all about purpose. She founded 
    Bridgework Consulting Ltd in 2007 to enable leaders to
    engage and energize their people around great work, with the intention of
    transforming organisations to become a force for good in the world.

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