Guest post by Paul Smith:
It happens every time you join a new company, or even when you change roles at the company you work for now. You have to spend months winning the trust and respect you’d already earned with the last group of people you managed.
Or do you?
Consider the results of a July 1999 New York Times/CBS survey. It asked, “Of people in general, how many do you think are trustworthy?” The average answer was 30 percent. Then it asked, “Of people you know personally, how many do you think are trustworthy?” The average answer shot up to 70 percent!
What does that suggest? It suggests that people who don’t know you default to not trusting you. But people who do know you default to trusting you unless you’ve given them a reason not to.
The good news is, there is a shortcut to earning trust – storytelling. Storytelling almost magically builds trust. Telling a personal story can move you from the 30 percent to the 70 percent, because it provides a personal, intimate, and perhaps vulnerable glimpse into your world. Reading the facts on your resume doesn’t really let someone get to know you, and spending enough time together could take months or years. A story is the shortest distance between being a stranger and a friend.
A great example of this happened in January of 2005 when Procter & Gamble bought the Gillette Company in the largest consumer packaged goods acquisition in history. As you might expect, Gillette employees were naturally concerned about what would happen to their jobs, pay, and benefits.
A few days after the deal closed, the CEO of P&G, A. G. Lafley, and several senior Gillette officials, held a huge meeting at Gillette headquarters in Boston’s Prudential Tower. The purpose of the meeting was to put employees at ease over the change in ownership. They invited as many Gillette employees as could fit in the auditorium. One of them was Mike Berry.
The Gillette officials spoke first. In their prepared remarks, they covered a number of reasons why this was a great deal for Gillette employees. “P&G is a market leader in almost every category they compete in . . . they have a 160-year history of treating their employees well . . . they have a very generous profit sharing plan,” etc. When it was A. G.’s turn to speak, he also had his list of reasons why this would be a good thing for Gillette employees. But before he got to those details, he told the audience a little about himself personally. How he started his career in the military, a little about his family, his hobbies, where he likes to go on vacation, and so on.
When the meeting was over, Mike’s reaction reflected the sentiment of many in the room. “Wow. I know A. G. better after five minutes than I know Gillette leaders after five years!” And that’s exactly what they needed to know—a little about A. G. personally. After all, what those Gillette employees needed most at that moment was to trust the man in charge of the company that just bought them. A. G. could have told them, “Trust me. We’ll take care of you.” But that wouldn’t have been nearly as effective as letting them get to know him a little. A. G.’s story moved him in the minds of his audience from the 30 percent to the 70 percent.
Don’t be afraid to share a few personal stories early in your tenure of a new job. It can take months off your start-up curve of earning trust and respect so you can start making a difference on day one.
© Paul Smith, author of Sell with a Story: How to Capture Attention, Build Trust, and Close the Sale (AMACOM)
About the Author:
Paul Smith is the author of Sell with a Story: How to Capture Attention, Build Trust and Close the Sale (AMACOM, 2016). He is a widely sought out speaker, coach, and trainer on business storytelling techniques whose clients include Hewlett Packard, Bayer Medical, Progressive Insurance, and Ford Motor Company. As the author of Lead with a Story (AMACOM, 2012), his work has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Inc., Time, Forbes, The Washington Post, Success, and Investor’s Business Daily. A former Procter & Gamble communications research executive with an M.B.A. from the Wharton School of Business, he lives in suburban Ohio. For more information, please visit http://leadwithastory.com